My friend Pinky passed away this week after a battle with cancer. The world is left short one incredible person, but heaven has gained one. Pinky was one of the first people I met in the scene and SCONY and I have nothing but fond memories of her. She was so friendly and welcoming and so much fun to be around. Always a smile on her face and a mischievous look in her eye. And rightly so as she was always up to something. 😉 She brought laughter wherever she went.
She was the original brat and any possible silliness or prank you could think up, she’d probably already done it and ten times better at that. I think she may have trademarked the term “throwing someone under the bus” because she sure was good at that. She was always willing to run you over… err… help you out. Lol. One of my first spankings was partly due to her hiding an item I was supposed to be carrying around and then got spanked for not having. And so it began!
You couldn’t be around Pinky for long without laughing about something, whether it was exchanging jokes or her hilarious Hello Titty t-shirt. At this past April’s SCONY weekend, I remember a bunch of us were hanging out on the porch just talking. “What’s the difference between a dog and a cat?” she asked. “What?” I said. “When you call a dog it comes. When you call a cat it takes a message and gets back to you later.” We all laughed and then she shared her markers so we could write something on our nametags that would get us in trouble later.
There is a memorial for her this weekend in NYC. For anyone in the area who knew her, you can find information about that on the SCONY group page on FetLife, along with how to make a donation in her name to the cancer foundation if you’d like to. I’ll be thinking of her and all my friends out there and have all my hugs saved up for when I see you all again. Pinky had a loving spirit and I know we’ll still feel it with us when we gather again in October. Rest in peace, Pinky. You will always hold a special place in the hearts of all who knew you.